Need a Conversation Starter? Try One of Ours to Break the Ice!

Online dating might be overwhelming if you haven’t been in the dating department for a long time. Perhaps you ended a long-term relationship and now you are looking for love again? Some men find internet dating quite intimidating as they don’t know how to start conversations online. If you are worried about saying something wrong or being rejected, this blog post is here to help you – please check out these powerful conversation starters!

Ask intentional questions that can get you a message back.

Don’t send generic messages such as “Hello”, “Hi” and “How are you?” because these messages indicate very limited effort. A high-value woman probably receives hundreds of messages like that every day, so she wouldn’t respond to every generic message.

In contrast, when you send someone an intentional question, your intentional effort brings you intentional results. For instance, you can ask a woman, “Hi. What’s giving you joy today?” This is an effective way to qualify women – those who don’t want to make an effort in order to get to know you or have a meaningful conversation wouldn’t respond to a message like that.

If your conversation starter is an intentional question, you can start a real connection with a woman online – this helps you to avoid dating burnout as well – you don’t want to send 1,000 messages to different people and get no result.

Other intentional questions:

  1. “What are you looking forward to this week?”
  2. “What brings you joy this week?”
  3. “What makes you smile today?”

Ask open-ended questions.

Instead of asking boring questions such as “What do you do?” and “Where are you from?”, you may consider asking open-ended questions to expand on a topic. For instance, you can ask a woman about something very specific on her dating profile photo, e.g., “Was that photo taken in your local museum?”

There are many open-ended questions that you can ask a woman on the internet:

  1. “What has made you laugh hard recently?”
  2. “Have you seen any interesting movies recently?”
  3. “Have you ever read a book that has changed your life?”
  4. “What does your dream relationship look like?”
  5. “What’s your special talent?”

Don’t ask yes/no questions that only require a short answer like “Yes” and “No”. If you are interested in a woman, you need to find a way to make the conversation longer and more engaging. Slavic women appreciate honesty and prefer non-superficial questions.

Also, if a woman asks you a simple question, you can give her an engaging answer. Remember: boring questions don’t require boring answers.

Please have a look at the examples below:

Example I:

WOMAN: “How was your day?”

MAN: “I just had the most life-changing hotcake in my life. Today is almost a perfect day.”

Example II:

WOMAN: “How are you?”

MAN: “I just finished reading Robert Greene’s new book Laws of Human Nature, so I feel amazing!”

Once you have understood the above-mentioned principles, you will be able to come up with your own conversation starters and your interesting answers.

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